1) THE BOSS
Nigerian men treat their wives as second in
command, they expect their women to be there
for them, answer when they call and they
always want to make the final decision... be the
man
2)THE WOMAN MUST COOK
For a woman... not knowing how to cook is a
serious crime in Nigeria.
Men in Nigeria believe that a woman is
responsible if she is good with domestic works
while the ones with very little knowledge and
domestic know-how are considered
irresponsible
3)INDEPENDENT
A Nigerian boy is expected to leave his father's
house at most by the age of 30, fend for himself
and build his own home. If he fails to do so, he
would be regarded as an irresponsible man in
his own community; Nigerian men are expected
to be independent by thirty at most.
A Nigerian man is very hard-working compared
to his counterparts in Diaspore because
1. The average Nigerian man believes in a family
and the men are expected to take up all the bills
at home.
2. The man runs the home irrespective of 'how
much' the wife is worth.
The Nigerian man is a natural hustler, they go
out in the morning and come back in the
evening, they don't usually get fed up with
wealth acquisition, that is the one thing
American women seem to like so much about
Nigerian men, - That they take responsibility
and make sure their family as well as their
woman is well taken care of.
4) THE LOVE FOR A SON
One of the best gift a woman can give to a Nigerian man is a male child.
Nigeia men are so concious for male children than their contempories Abroad.
One said "I love the way African men love their
children it is the most beautiful thing I have
ever seen, but I can see the boys are more
spoiled, that is the truth."