Saturday, May 16, 2015
REASONS WHY EVERY YOUNG AND AMBITIEOUS STUGGLING MAN SHOULD FORGET ABOUT "LOVE"
If you are a young and ambitious dude still
struggling to get to the top, this write-up will save
you the stress and pains of the so-called love we
have been deceived about for long!
If you still think that there's what is called 'true
love' or 'love without money or resources', then you
must be living in a fool's paradise!!!
(Quote me if
The truth of the matter is that what people in the
past enjoyed as 'true love' no longer exist.
was possible for a man and a woman to fall in love
based on personal qualities or characters without
materialism attached to it! Those were the good old
Our society has changed and any one who
still lives in the past is not better than the village !!!
I have heard people saying often times that love or
relationship is not all about money! To me, that's
the highest level of insincerity and deceit!
If you are a
young man with ambition, still striving and toiling to
make it, you better forget about love and
concentrate full-time...I mean 100% on your dreams
It is so frustrating to see some struggling dudes
killing themselves over love issues! What a life!
spend the meagre salary you earn after working for
30 days like a donkey on a girl?
She tells you
she needs a phone, you struggle to buy it! She says
she needs money for hair, you struggle to give her!
She tells you she needs to get a nice bag or pair of
shoes she saw at a boutique, you struggle to give
Be rest assured that you will continue to
struggle endlessly in your life if you don't desist
from such shameful and wasteful act!
If you want to
know the extent to which materialism has eaten into
this so-called love, watch even the younger girls of
today! Even those that are below 21 or 22 will
quickly run away from you if you can't be giving her
upkeep money, money for hair and phone, etc.
The mature ones? If you don't live comfortably
well, sorry, you are on your own!!!
Except for those few
village girls that are not exposed or desperate ones in search of any man to call a husband but ask your self after the marriage what next......
But seriously, not
in the cities in Nigeria like Abuja, Lagos, Portharcourt, Owerri to mention but a few.
Before you criticize me on the fact that these
women need to live a comfortable life by hanging
out with only comfortable dudes, read the topic
It is surely the same reason why I said
young struggling men should forget about love and
focus on their lives!!!
When you are abit comfortable,
you can have the resources to sustain your
relationship because no matter how a woman
'loves' you, the 'love' must surely die if there's no
finance to sustain it!
Adams Oshiomole (not handsome) just got married
to pretty Lara Forte! Do you think she didn't see all
the tall handsome dudes with six-packs before
tying the knot with the governor?